Unread message (Part 1/2)

It’s rare to see me talking about love and it’s concerns. It was, is and will always be a different and difficult story to tell in public whenever it’s about break up or confessing feelings about someone. 

This is because we can’t get exactly how to express what we feel rather than showing it. The only way of proving it is to show it not talking but using an action language cause love is what makes the ride worthwhile.

The best way to show love is to admit, respect and loyalty. If it lacks one of these legs it ain’t love, it’s attachment due to times or moments. And this is what confuses many people. 

If I had to choose between respect and loyalty, I would go for loyalty. Because, you can respect someone but don’t be loyal to him\her but being loyal to someone is another way of loving him\her. Nobody disrespect and cheats on the person he loves, but he\She can do it to the person he\she is attached to.

So, sometimes people don’t get it right whereas it is very simple. If you have a jewelry that fits your wish, you can’t settle for another but if you feels like going for another would be better it’s because it is more attractive. That implies that the first is no longer enough, maybe because it doesn’t fit or you ain’t grateful for it.

Wiser is letting go to anything that you prioritize and treats you back on an option. A good dancer knows when to enter and to leave the stage.

We’re in a generation where people feels too important for having what they wish to but don’t want give what it requires. Yeah, it’s human kind to like being appreciated, cared and important to the society. But when it kicks in, most fails due to poor decision making.

Although some resists, most people changes whenever they meet other people. And when the changes opens the door, confusion begins. Here you find people deciding to take new path with other people but still don’t wish to loose whoever was around. Is this a sign of love or instability?

At this point we find ourselves sometimes stuck in places where we can’t go back and lose what we can’t afford to bring back. At these places we call mind prisons, you can’t think beyond a meter.

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  1. Anonymous28 June 2023 at 13:29

    Wooow I love the story and the message

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