TIME VERSUS FRIENDS AND PRIVACY

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It's very clear when we mention the word "time". Every moment makes time. From the past, present till the future the time will never stop. From where we began, things never been the same, every second, hour, day, month and year we experience variety of things. 

Once up on a time we had mates whom we shared public things but not related to our personal life. Day by day, step by step and due to different reasons some of our mates became our friends and this will continue till the end.

With time, I have faced many things that made me realize many things that I weren't aware of. In personal life, everyone has things or history that make part of his\her life and considered to be secrets and others have nothing to hide at all.

It's we who decides who to share life moments with, but we're not the one who decides when will that relationships lasts. Those who we trust most are the one who knows us most, and those who we least trust knows a little about us depending on how we are open to them.

It's true that our best friends and relatives know us better than anybody else. The more we spend more time with our friends, the more they know things related to us. At this point we must be more careful because nobody knows the end, even if we predict, something might change. Once you fully trust someone, you let him\her know some of your secrets accordingly. This is not a problem, it's a normal case but not 100% perfect.

As simple mates can be friends, friends can be best friends and continue like that to a high extent. The higher you go, the higher you expose yourself. It's cool to have people around who can help you but it's not good to tell them more about you just because they're are your friends.

Always let people know what's right in the right time. As we're not sure of what the future holds, we must also be sure our privacy is secured. Always remember that more we get involved in relationships, the more we expose ourselves.

As long as nobody is perfect, you owe yourself a credit of being simply better than you were in the past. Don't ever think that because you had good moments with someone, you'll always remember them and smile. Sometimes you might remember them and cry. BE AWARE. 


For the betterment of your life and the security of who you are, never let time defeats your mind and trust every friend as if you'll last together. Your friend today might be your enemy tomorrow.

Be kind to yourself on how you address your privacy to people around. Not everything sweet lasts forever. A day is made of light and dark as same as life is made up of good and bad moments. 


As your smiling today, the same reason can make you cry in the coming days. Everything matters accordingly and hits differently.

As time changes, friends changes too, but your privacy won't change. 


BE WISE, KIND AND HUMBLE TO YOURSELF, DON'T LET TODAY'S HAPPINESS RUIN YOUR FUTURE. 

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 Author: BANAMWANA Didace

 

Location: Kamembe, Rwanda

Comments

  1. CodyFaith13 August 2020 at 23:51

    Get busy living or get busy dying
    life is something happens when busy doing plans

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  2. Ice1d15 August 2020 at 01:49

    Some friendships do span an entire lifetime, others come and go.friendships changes as Life changes and life changes as time changes.it's all about life we live that's why privacy matter✊. And thanks for your advices

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  3. Ice1d15 August 2020 at 01:51

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  4. Unknown17 August 2020 at 09:54

    This is helpful, it is real life advice to everyone who can read this. Courage ✊

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  5. CodyFaith19 September 2020 at 09:32

    mindful......... its good

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  6. Roi26 January 2021 at 09:03

    This is what we need,thank you didace keep it up

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  7. LEVED LIFE3 June 2021 at 22:26

    Thanks

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  8. B_1316 November 2021 at 13:26

    🙏

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