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After this

Dear You, Relax. Take a deep breath in and out.  Accept all that comes around as they are meant to shape you. Stop expecting smooth times as they only creates weak men, challenge yourself by accepting and adapting to tough day. Stop sticking to one side, always be ready and if not adapt. Remember, night time won’t wait for you to get ready so that it kicks in; it only happens when it is time to.  I understand all the excuses that you can make but before thinking that all jewelry are kept in smart and safe places, think of where Diamonds are found. Credit yourself the energy of being better at any cost because nobody will sacrifice on your own like you could. You the only thing that couldn’t leave yourself.  Start to blame yourself for all your negative outcomes and cherish the little steps that makes you better thus make it a habit. Give everything space and wait. At the right time, everything falls in place. At the end fo the day, it is all for you by you. Author: Didace...

Savage truth

Privacy is a code, way of life and one of the means to have a better life. In this busy world, nobody want to live perfectly because it’s clear not to be possible. Guess what? It is so interesting how people want to be heard as a reflection of good things whereas they do the opposite.    Everyone want to be in an    expensive shelter called heroic legacy but nobody wants to bear the challenges of becoming so. Ego is replacing the energy that used to bond people as one and live a supportive life. Instead of am not improving myself, I’ve been doing better than nobody is pressuring people thus do worse than what they should. And the saddest thing is that, people aren’t competing to improve but to impress. That’s the point where negativity kicks in. Insanity is driving people crazy whereas there is nothing wrong with the surroundings but with inhabitants. Just the world is getting blind. Ever seen\been in such a situation? Look around, pose and flex, you’ll come up with ...

kept inbox

Hello there! This isn’t a day’s or week’s mood, not seasonal or intentional, as I have no control over it. Since the day it began, I have tried to figure out the reason why it hit so differently than anything else. We try to convince our hearts that we have so much more to work on than being together, more things to do than falling in love, but in the end it ends up us giving up on how we really feel.   There are been days that we’ve been smiling, joking like kids, but it seems like it sounds different at this time. Each new day we had to wake up with no plans other than talking and checking on each other. Funny are the days we used to joke and tell each other how crazy we are, how toxic we can be to each other. Those past days felt dark, white and simpler than trust issues because nobody thought we could end up like this.   We usually point out other people's fingers that could fit our craziness and moody lifestyles, but we choose to be there for each other. Surprisingly...

A fallen bird.

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It’s rare to see me talking about love and its concerns. It was, is, and will always be a different and difficult story to tell in public whenever it’s about breaking up or confessing feelings about someone. This is because we don’t know exactly how to express what we feel, rather than show it. The only way to prove it is to show it, not by talking but by using action language, because love is what makes the ride worthwhile.   The best way to show love is to show respect and loyalty. If it lacks one of these legs, it ain’t love; it’s attachment due to times or moments. And this is what confuses many people. If I had to choose between respect and loyalty, I would go for loyalty. Because you can respect someone but don’t be loyal to him or her, being loyal to someone is another way of loving him or her. Nobody disrespects and cheats on the person he loves, but he or she can do it to the person he or she is attached to.   So, sometimes people don’t get it right, whereas it is...

The mindset

Once upon a time, my mind used to convince me that whenever you get focused and committed about something, you win or end up having it. Whenever I heard people talking about failures they had, I thought it was because they were not being real about them, not being focused, or not planning how to do them. But in the end, I’ve got a different taste.    In fact, I won’t be blamed for that, because most people believe what they don’t know but testify to what they experienced. I was so lucky to be part of the population that got this chance to testify about it. Here is what it is:   At first, I had strong beliefs that working hard pays off, but this was not true. Instead, working smarter pays everything. We don’t need to push every day or get stuck in one way to reach success. We need to plan, adapt, and accept the changes that we encounter and find new ways of adapting to these changes. Without this, it would be so rare to find something that matches all our plans. And once s...

Behind the pretty face

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  I’m not old enough to summarise a century’s events, but I am experienced enough to say that I faced one of the shocking moments whenever certain things happened. This took my mind far, across the oceans and overseas, but my body stayed locally. These are the moments I used to pause everything and ask myself, ‘’Why this?'' I used to believe that all the things we experience are the effects of the decisions we made in the past. I just believe that doing good brings good back, but no, this world is so tricky. People are good and happy, so their actions open future doors for them easily. In contrast, others do good and experience worse things they wish were nightmares. Surprisingly, people just live their lives on their own, do whatever they have to, and wait for the end. In turn, you find their future bright despite the previous bad act, with no bad effects and zero regrets. This sounds different and too weird because everyone expects and needs a bright future, which is good, ...

Kiss loneliness

Is it a goodbye, a hello or just both?   A friend once told me that some emotions cannot be explained but experienced to understand them. So is loneliness.   Growing up sucks, but not when you see it as an escape of your own reality. Not when your childhood is full of decisions that takeaway safety and bring weirdness.  Not when you are always scared of a screaming father and a crying mother, and never know how to express what you feel or what you think. Not when your only true friend is your diary and you have to pretend with other humans because you just feel a void, a sense of emptiness that would be described as loneliness.   Icebreaking age or just teen age, age of powerlessness is both powerful and powerless at the same time, every decision you make will have to be with you for the long run.  You got keep up, impress and meet some expectations.  You think you got it, but you are just walking in the direction that you don’t know of, walking blindly bec...