What is your piont?

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In this century there is an increase of relationship types. Among these we have; just friends, best friends, twins made, sister by choice, brother by choice, girlfriend/ boyfriend and soulmates.

You as part of the relationship, what do you think? 

Is it really necessary to have female best friend while you’re a male in relation (having a girlfriend)? Or does it make sense to have a male best friend when you are a female meanwhile in relation ( having a boyfriend)?

How do you rate these relationships called “Besto, Bestie” to people who are in relationship. 

Let’s share ideas, what is your opinion about this?

Comments

  1. Ice1d6 September 2022 at 06:17

    Fuck besties and bestos screw 'em

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    1. Didace, B.17 May 2023 at 11:23

      Thanks for your feedback.
      Too deep 🥶

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  2. Anonymous6 September 2022 at 06:51

    No bestie things in clear relationships

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    1. Didace, B.17 May 2023 at 11:25

      Thanks for your feedback

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  3. Pearl6 September 2022 at 22:21

    😁😅 Icyo nzicyo uyu munsi ntibiri bworohe...
    I think no one else can be your best friend than your partner.
    so, If you want peace of mind never get in those things of Besto and Bestie when you are in relationship... CZ it's not necessary.

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    1. Didace, B.17 May 2023 at 11:27

      Thanks for your feedback but don’t you think sometimes it can help?

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  4. Stella9 September 2022 at 09:41

    Besties are not necessary when you are in a relationship because if you don't trust your partner you are wasting your time
    Besties mostly are the ones to bring problems in a relationship.

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    1. Anonymous14 October 2022 at 13:09

      Thanks for your feedback dear 🙏

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  5. Anonymous17 May 2023 at 11:29

    Having a bestfriend of opposite gender when you are in a relationship creates chaos. No one understands that, it creates bunch of jealousy, insecurities and major trust issues.
    So i would not really like it for my part for it just brings more harm than good coz i would know that well for every prob there is a person who will be one call away and that would not be me at certain times so have your boyfriend as bestfriend or girlfriend as best friend it just kinda eases the pace😊

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    1. Anonymous17 May 2023 at 11:41

      Thanks for your feedback,

      My question is; if you were a best friend of the person in love. Would you let him\her to create space for his\her relation?

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  6. Anonymous17 May 2023 at 11:48

    I would, if it makes him happy i'd give him that space he needs pee

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