Behind the silent smile

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Every human being has it’s own feeling depending on the present situation. Whether you call it a feeling or reaction, it defines something. As we’re different, we even have different ways of expressing our feelings. People who expresses all of their feelings are said to be weak, is it true? What’s good, hiding or expressing your feelings?

Remember, people always have the option to say no matter what you do. So, will this be the reason why we do anything we want? What is behind that cute smile on our face? Does it expresses our truly feelings about something or not? In our childhood, we used to smile to show the degree to which we are enjoying something and cried to expresses how sad or uncomfortable we are to something. As we grew older, I firmly confirm that the case changed.

Adult people can smile while sad or appear to be sad while happy. What’s the reason behind this? I came to know that although a thousand people may be interested to hear your story, only few one could respond or help you. It’s of no use letting every person know your feelings as some will smile and be glad for your achievements while others will be unhappy. Even some will hear all your struggles and laugh behind your back even though they can’t just let you know.

Be aware of those cute, beautiful smile with no sound. They are not always true but worthy the attention. We might not directly know what's the meaning behind them but we may know their uncertainty. Simplify the life but never be simple to everyone. Remember, not all people are interested with your life. 

Be wise in knowing who to share all your feelings and who to share your best moments only. Not everyone who shows you his\her smile is happy. Learn how to fight alone. We live the life of hustling and nobody ever addressed it to be easy, but we all know that it’s worthy being enjoyed. The more you suffer, the more you can even enjoy. 

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Comments

  1. Unknown25 December 2020 at 20:12

    Congrats Tonny! I like your inspiration thoughts and this has à great impact to our daily lives

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  2. Unknown10 February 2021 at 07:20

    Thanks for the inspiration.

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  3. Unknown20 March 2021 at 04:04

    U nailed it bruh! It's Splendiferous indeed and life changing!

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  4. Pearl22 July 2021 at 11:17

    Thanks!
    That's true.

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  5. Stella11 January 2023 at 04:42

    True

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  6. Anonymous11 January 2023 at 12:39

    The world is changing. in happiness smile,in sadness cry. people should stop pretending nobody really cares. I'm telling you if you smile in your sadness or you pretend to be happy while you're not, you'll go ment

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