The judgement in life

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Not every act we take in this life is appreciated by all people. Some congratulates, others blame you. No matter how kind, loyal or brave you are, you will not impress all people. Take a look at your past, when you were the person you used to be, they judged you. When you finally changed, they criticized you. You really can’t win with peoples talk. All we need in this life is a better tomorrow but you have to put in mind that it won’t come easily.

Whether you proceed or not you’ll be judged; never take a back step just because they talked\gossiped about you. If you do so, you’ll show them that what you did wasn’t right. Real friends will judge, enemies will judge and everyone else can. What is more important at this stage is to check if you’re doing the right thing and move on. Look at what you need to achieve and focus less on what people talk about you.

Never totally ignore what people talk about you, just think about them but never make them your priority; they might show something great to do. We never know how people we judge feel, some feel isolated, ashamed, misunderstood, criticized and demeaned. Judgement can also result in people being less likely to talk about what they’re going through and ask for the help they need. Remember, whenever you ask people “how are you doing?”, they will answer according to who you are to them.

To get rid over other people’s judgement, know your strengths and limitations. If you know what you are good at, and what your setbacks are, you are less likely to be affected by what others say or think about you. Instead of judging someone for what he’s done or how he looks, try instead to understand the person.

 

Resist letting others define you, people will always have an opinion.

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 Author: BANAMWANA Didace

 

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