Leved Life

It’s rare to see me talking about love and its concerns. It was, is, and will always be a different and difficult story to tell in public whenever it’s about breaking up or confessing feelings about someone. This is because we don’t know exactly how to express what we feel, rather than show it. The only way to prove it is to show it, not by talking but by using action language, because love is what makes the ride worthwhile.   The best way to show love is to show respect and loyalty. If it lacks one of these legs, it ain’t love; it’s attachment due to times or moments. And this is what confuses many people. If I had to choose between respect and loyalty, I would go for loyalty. Because you can respect someone but don’t be loyal to him or her, being loyal to someone is another way of loving him or her. Nobody disrespects and cheats on the person he loves, but he or she can do it to the person he or she is attached to.   So, sometimes people don’t get it right, whereas it is...

Once upon a time, my mind used to convince me that whenever you get focused and committed about something, you win or end up having it. Whenever I heard people talking about failures they had, I thought it was because they were not being real about them, not being focused, or not planning how to do them. But in the end, I’ve got a different taste.    In fact, I won’t be blamed for that, because most people believe what they don’t know but testify to what they experienced. I was so lucky to be part of the population that got this chance to testify about it. Here is what it is:   At first, I had strong beliefs that working hard pays off, but this was not true. Instead, working smarter pays everything. We don’t need to push every day or get stuck in one way to reach success. We need to plan, adapt, and accept the changes that we encounter and find new ways of adapting to these changes. Without this, it would be so rare to find something that matches all our plans. And once s...